“Not all of us can do great things. But we can all do small things with great love.” -Mother Teresa
It is easy to feel overwhelmed when getting started with charity and volunteering. For many of us the enormity of the job in front of us paralyzes us and prevents us from doing anything. Fortunately, kids are often better then adults at seeing the benefits of small acts. Helping an elderly neighbor with lawn work, befriending someone other people make fun of, making bagged lunches for the homeless, collecting books for a school in a developing country or in a poor part of America, or gathering toiletries for domestic violence shelters are all small acts that can impact many lives. So, why don’t we volunteer more:
I WILL DO IT LATER.
“How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.” -Anne Frank
I often find myself making excuses for why I don’t do more now. I am waiting until my kids are older, until work isn’t quite so busy, until I decide what type of volunteer work I want to do…. Finally I have realized that while I am making excuses there are people who are suffering, organizations looking for volunteers, and projects that need funding. Charity is like having a baby, there is never going to be a time when you say “wow, I have plenty of extra time and money so now I can be more charitable.” Life is busy, but anyone who makes it a priority can make room for charity and volunteering.
I WOULDN’T BE GOOD AT IT.
“I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything but I can do something. And I will not let what I cannot do interfere with what I can do.” -Edward Everett Hale
We all have our strengths. For those of us who are cooking challenged, making dinners for the homeless at a soup kitchen may not be the best volunteer activity. However, with the myriad of volunteer opportunities available today there really is something for everyone. Even small children can contribute. Have you ever seen an adult turn down a 3 year old selling lemonade or cookies? Come up with your strengths and then look for volunteer opportunities that match. If you are not good at hands on volunteering then serving on a Board of Directors or making micro-loans through Kiva may be for you. Anyone who really wants to volunteer can find an opportunity if they put in a little bit of effort. Websites like www.connectrichmond.org, www.idealist.org, and www.volunteermatch.org make finding volunteer opportunities easier than ever.
SOMEONE ELSE WILL DO IT.
“I wondered why somebody didn’t do something. Then I realized, I am somebody.” -Author unknown
It is easy to wait for someone to come up with a solution, but at some point I realized that I am just as capable as anyone else of helping solve the world’s problems. It doesn’t matter that the only time I have traveled out of the country was to go to Cancun for a vacation – I can still help a child in Africa. We all have unique skills that we can use to help solve problems in the world. Of course, there are people out there who have way more money or more time, and there will always be a lot of people who could be doing more, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t do everything that you can.
THE PROBLEMS ARE TOO BIG TO FIX.
“Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It’s not.” -Dr. Seuss, The Lorax
Admittedly, most of the problems that we attempt to address with charity are big problems and the solutions are hard. There are many problems, such as poverty and violence, that will probably always be around to some extent. But unless we try to find solutions there is no hope that those problems will ever get better. And teaching our kids to care is one of the most important things we can do to help find long-term solutions to problems. We need to make sure that our children know the importance of being charitable and that, through their actions, they pass this on to their children and their children’s children.